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I... don't think this is right at all? It's not that someone becomes best for you after some amount of time and effort. You will never exist in the globally optimal configuration of your life. There will be times when the commitment object really is just objectively worse than
Chris Lakin@chrislakin · Oct 9I suspect people who have trouble committing to a partner (“what there’s someone I like even more?”) don’t realize that if you spend a year with anyone who you’re sufficiently compatible with, they quickly become the best in the world for you
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